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I have always wondered what appropriate gifts are to give the people,
sometimes whom you have never meet before, who generously share their
homes. Any suggestions?
Thanks
Cecilia de Gatisbury


On Mon, Jul 15, 2013 at 10:22 PM, Brenda Knox <[log in to unmask]> wrote:

> I just want to add a few words. People:  If you ask for a ride to an
> event, either offer gas money, at least what it would cost to fill up the
> tank half-way. Pay for a meal, or at least be a pleasant traveling
> companion.
> Remember, maybe they were going anyway, but what would it have cost you
> for a bus ticket there?  If they refuse the cash, do something nice for
> them at a later time. When your ride wants to leave, get ready to leave.
> Buy them lunch, or drive-through on the way home.  If there is a crash
> space, bring a gift, or sing a song, or make yourself inconspicuous or
> helpful.  Bring the things you are going to need, so your host/hostess does
> not have to scurry for them.  Don't smoke in the house you are crashing
> in.  Don't be a prima-donna, wanting special treatment, foods, or other
> things.  Bring it yourself, if you need it.
>
>
> On Mon, Jul 15, 2013 at 10:01 PM, Stefan li Rous <
> [log in to unmask]> wrote:
>
>> For those to whom the concept of "crash space" might be new, even to
>> those who may have been in the Society for years, but haven't been sure of
>> this less and less used aspect of the SCA, take a look at this file in
>> Stefan's Florilegium:
>> crash-space-msg (28K) 1/13/11 'crash-space etiquette' for both the
>> traveler and the crash-space provider.
>> http://www.florilegium.org/files/NEWCOMERS/crash-space-msg.html
>>
>> This is in the NEWCOMERS section, which I mentioned to you, Jeffery
>> Vitale, in my first message to you. I'm glad that your first SCA event was
>> a great time for you. Hopefully, this will lead to many more interesting
>> times. You haven't mentioned whether it was the fighting or the feasting or
>> something else that has interested you the most. No matter what it is, and
>> there is still a lot for you to discover, I welcome you to take a look at
>> the files in the Florilegium to see some of the things you can get involved
>> in.
>>
>> A couple of other files on clothing in the NEWCOMERS section which might
>> help you:
>> clothing-4-nc-msg (12K) 11/28/10 Comments for newcomers on SCA clothing.
>> http://www.florilegium.org/files/NEWCOMERS/clothing-4-nc-msg.html
>>
>> Do-not-Wear-art (13K) 8/19/12 "SCA – What Not To Wear – Belts, Baldrics
>> and Scarves, Oh My!" by Lord Ian the Green.
>> http://www.florilegium.org/files/NEWCOMERS/Do-not-Wear-art.html
>>
>> Easy-T-Tunics-art (6K) 5/12/06 "Easy T-Tunics" by THL George Anne.
>> http://www.florilegium.org/files/NEWCOMERS/Easy-T-Tunics-art.html
>>
>> Directions for making a simple T-tunic.
>> Stefan
>> in another kingdom, far, far away… or is it?
>>
>> On Jul 15, 2013, at 10:24 AM, Heather Hillhouse <[log in to unmask]>
>> wrote:
>> > Hi Jeffrey-
>> > I'm so glad you had a good time and found a place to crash! I'm a big
>> fan of making it home safely, and I hope we all remember to clue in new
>> people about crash space as it is not part of the mundane world for the
>> most part!
>> > It was nice to meet you! :)
>> > Derdriu (that random lady)
>>
>> --------
>> THLord Stefan li Rous    Barony of Bryn Gwlad    Kingdom of Ansteorra
>>    Mark S. Harris           Austin, Texas
>> [log in to unmask]
>> http://www.linkedin.com/in/marksharris
>> **** See Stefan's Florilegium files at:  http://www.florilegium.org ****
>>
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